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Awesome job, Gabby!

Just wanted to take a moment to say, “Awesome job, Gabby!”  Gabby Wilson, who is a junior at Briarcrest High School, stepped up and shared our devotional for our Wild Wednesday on September 28 and did an awesome job!  She shared with our teenagers from Colossians 3:23 & 2 Thessalonians 3:10 about the importance of working our hardest at everything we do and using our God-given potential to its fullest.

Thanks Gabby for sharing!  It’s so awesome to watch students step up and become leaders and ministers themselves!

For HIS Glory!

Jeff

Parental Controls

If you are like me, the instant you see these big bold words, the next reaction is always one of panic. “What are my parents gonna do next to wreck my life?” is the normal question most teens ask, including myself on occasion. Now of course, we don’t say it to their faces, and if we are really clever we don’t even let it show in our actions much, but it is there all the same. That insidious idea that you are your own person and you know how to run your life better than anyone else can, including our parents.

Sometimes its hard living with parents.  You might be struggling through a divorce situation or even a strong hatred for how your parents handle of certain situations. However, one of the things that always comes back to me is the fact that they love us. No matter how much they may get angry at our foolish actions or our constant disregard of commands they may have given us, they still love us. When I think of that I am forced to ask myself this question, “Do I love them just as much?” If the situation were reversed and I were the adult and they the kids, would I have the same love that they have for me?

I am not a fan of “what if” questions mainly because a “what if” is asked only to shake a persons belief in a certain subject, but in this case it creates a valid point. In this day and age we seem to forget that our parents went through the same situations we did and know a ton more about life than we do. How is that so? Well its a concept called age.  The more you have the wiser you get. Yes, I realize this is not always the case but in most situations it happens to be true. Older people have lived more of life than we have and thus have more experience. Thus when it comes down to it, they are a far better guide on your life than you ever could be.

So what do we have? We know they loves us and we know they are wiser than us, but if that doesn’t “float your boat,” we have a direct command from God’s Word. Ever heard of the Ten Commandments? If you haven’t, just take one of those Bibles your dad or mom probably has lying around the house and open it up to the second book, Exodus, chapter 20. If you start reading on down through the ten commandments the fifth one may catch your eye. “Honor your father and mother that your days may live long on the earth”.

In a nut shell that means that if you respect your parent’s and honor them, you will live longer. Now I don’t know about you but I sure like living, and anything that can increase living is a sweet deal to me. So as a final challenge, I ask that you consider all that your parents have done. Wether you have good or bad parents isn’t the issue, the issue is that God has placed them in authority over you for a reason. The only time you should ever disregard their advice or command is if that command or advice doesn’t line up with what God desires. In the next year see if you can train yourself to always honor your parents in your actions. I know its a hard achievement but the reward, a long life, is well worth it.

May your spirit stay strong,

Noah

Youth Parent Weekly – September 25, 2011

Dear parents,

This week, our Sunday school classes wrapped up their four-week series on loving God and loving others. In this final lesson, we examined the parable of the Good Samaritan from Luke 10. It’s a familiar story for teenagers who have been raised in church, and even many non-Christians know the importance of being a “Good Samaritan” to people in need. In fact, we’re so familiar with the teaching that we may fail to realize how radical Jesus’ words were.

The people who heard Jesus’ story would have expected either the priest or the Levite-a temple assistant-to help a person in need. After all, the victim was Jewish. These two religious leaders were Jewish. They would be considered “neighbors,” right? But the person who offers assistance was a “despised” Samaritan. He had compassion on this Jewish man, and he turns his compassion into action by dressing the wounds, transporting the man to an inn, and covering all the costs for this man’s care and accommodation. Jesus confronted stereotypes and prejudices while challenging his audience to turn compassion into action.

I’d encourage you to take a few minutes and talk with your teenager about this week’s lesson. As always, I want to offer some questions that you could use during your conversation:

  • When was the last time you were a “Good Samaritan” who “stopped” and helped someone in need? Why did you make that decision? How did it affect you and other people?
  • Jesus told this parable 2,000 years ago, so exactly how is it relevant to your life today? Which elements feel familiar, and which elements would you change if telling this story to a current-day audience-especially if you wanted to have the same impact Jesus’ story had on his audience?
  • Think ahead to life after high school. How might the idea of “loving your neighbor” change? What new challenges might you face as you put this commandment into practice?

This has been a great study for our small groups, and I pray our discussions and readings in the Bible have had an impact on your teenager. Please let me know how I can continue praying for you and your family!

Also, make sure to download a copy of our October newsletter HERE.  Plenty of info on some great stuff coming up.

For HIS Glory!

Jeff

October 2011 Newsletter

Hey Students & Parents,

Take a moment to download our October 2011 Student Ministry Newsletter by clicking HERE.  Plenty of great events coming up for you to get involved in, so check it out!

Jeff

God is good!

Yes, I know that “God is good” all the time.  And some of you are reciting that little saying out loud right now (“and all the time, God is good!).  Yes, I caught you.  Go ahead, confess it!  But sometimes things happen in life that bring that fact to the forefront of our minds (where it should be all the time).

As many of you know, for nearly 2 months, our Student Ministry has been raising funds to make some much-needed renovations in our gym to accommodate our ministry’s activities and growth.  We started with about $9,000 in our fund in the middle of July and a need to raise a total of $55,000 to purchase the equipment and pay for the needed work.

As of this past Sunday, we are DONE!!!  In fact, we have raised MORE THAN ENOUGH money to complete the project!  Or better yet, I should say that God provided more than we asked for (as He always does)!  Praise God for his goodness and for his blessings that he pours out on our Student Ministry!

For HIS Glory!

Jeff

5th Quarter & Dodgeball Tournament – Friday, Sept. 23

Just a few days until our 3rd annual 5th Quarter Dodgeball Tournament!  Doors open @ 9pm for games, open gym, and plenty of free food.  The Dodgeball Tournament will start at 10:45pm.  We’ll be giving away plenty of door prizes, including gift cards and an iPod Touch!  Prizes as well for the winning dodgeball team.

Here’s what you need to know for the tournament…

1.  Teams are made up of 6 teenagers, grade 7-12.  Teams may have more than 6 players, but only 6 will play each game.
2.  Teams are encouraged (but not required) to come up with team uniforms.  Be creative!  Prizes for the best uniforms.
3.  The tournament is single-elimination.
4.  If you don’t have a team, we’ll find one for you, so come anyway!
5.  If you don’t want to play dodgeball, come anyway for the fun, food, and prizes!

If you need more info, email me or call the church office @ 901-853-4253.

Church address: 11893 Macon Rd, Eads, TN 38028

–Jeff

Youth Parent Weekly – September 18, 2011

Hey Parents,

We’re continuing our Sunday School series on the topic of loving God and loving others. Jesus’ response in Matthew 22:34-40 to a religious leader asking about the greatest commandments has served as our foundation for these conversations. In this particular lesson, we examined the second greatest commandment-love your neighbor as yourself, which comes from Leviticus 19:18.

The more we love and worship God, the more we view life the way he does. Our love for God feeds our love for other people. Loving your neighbor as yourself is rooted in an understanding of who we are in Christ. The second greatest commandment actually has two components: Jesus wants us to love our neighbors as we love ourselves.

When we love God as the creator, to whom everything belongs, we recognize that we’re not an accident and we’ve been redeemed through his Son. How can we not love ourselves? God made us and saved us! We have value in Him. In this, we can look outward and love others as we love ourselves.

I’d encourage you to take time this week to talk about this lesson with your teenager. Feel free to use these questions to fuel your dialogue:

  • What does it mean to “love yourself?” How is this expressed in a healthy, Christ-like way?
  • Which people in your world are easiest to love, and why? Which people are toughest to love, and why?
  • Think of one person in your “world” who is hurting right now. How can you show your love for this person in the coming week?

Thanks for your support and prayers for our ministry. Have an awesome week!

For HIS Glory!

Jeff

Student Devo – Philippians 2:14-16

This semester, we’re walking through the book of Philippians on Wednesday nights in Youth Group.  Last night, we took a look at Philippians 2:12, which commands us to “work out our salvation,” which led to some good discussion about what it means to exercise our faith.

This coming Wednesday, September 21, I’m planning on walking through on Philippians 2:14-16, which commands us to “Do all things without grumbling or complaining.”  Pretty tough command.  As I started reading through it and jotting down some notes today on those verses, I got to thinking about all the things in life that I’m guilty of complaining and grumbling about.  From unfortunate circumstances, to bills, to arguments with others, to failures in my own life – the list could go on and on.  And what I also realized is that most of the time, my complaining was self-centered: I didn’t get my way or someone didn’t agree with me.

And yet, God’s Word commands me not to complain or grumble about any of it.  My thoughts were, “Seriously?  Any of it?  Why?”  And as I dug a little deeper into the Bible, I was reminded of passages like James 1:2-4, which teaches that those circumstances and struggles produce a stronger faith, and Romans 8:28, which reminds me that God is in control of each and every situation that I find myself in, and that He’s at work through it all.

So why not complain about our situations, our struggles, our circumstances, our disputes, or our bad days?  Because God is working in and through everything you’re experiencing.  And when we find ourselves complaining and grumbling, it leads to gossip, resentment, selfishness, and more anger, instead of godliness, forgiveness, understanding, and compassion.

This week, I want to challenge you to keep track of every time you find yourself grumbling or complaining about ANYTHING life throws at you.  If you’re like me, your list may end up being pretty long.  And in each and every situation, pray to God that He’d give you guidance and understanding to know how to respond as He wants.

 

For HIS Glory!

Jeff

5th Quarter & Dodgeball Tournament – Sept. 23 @ 9pm

Brad, Drew, & I took a little time to put together a promo video for our upcoming Dodgeball Tournament.  Hope you enjoy…

FBCF 5th Quarter & Dodgeball Tournament 2011 – Promo from Jeff James on Vimeo.

For HIS Glory!

Jeff

Parent Seminar @ Ellendale Baptist Church

Hey Youth Parents,

Just got a message from my friend and fellow Youth Pastor, Nathan Pellegra, from Ellendale Baptist Church in Bartlett about a free Parent Seminar hosted by Covenant Eyes, focusing on the dangers of Internet pornography for teenagers.

Don’t think it’s a danger for your teen?  Check out these statistics…

  • From 1999 to 2009 the amount of time spent on computers increased 121%. Today, 84% of young people have Internet access at home and Americans ages 13 to 24 spend more than 20 hours a week surfing the Internet.
  • Nearly 90% of all sexual solicitations of youth occur online.
  • 20% of youth have received a sexual solicitation online.
  • The average age of a child’s first Internet exposure to pornography is just 11 years old!
  • More than 100,000 websites offer illegal child pornography. More than 72 million
    people visit pornography websites annually.

This will definitely be a worthwhile seminar to attend.  For more info and to register, visit Ellendale Baptist’s website here.

For HIS Glory!

Jeff

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